Day 19 , Matthew 19-
Good day everyone!
With 5 days left before lent — make sure that you are thinking and praying about your spiritual plan — take the last three days and check my other blog postings coming soon on this same website!!! We will continue this one chapter a day with only 9 days left in the Gospel of Matthew!!
71 days left in our 90 day marathon run!!! Whooo hooo! Come Holy Spirit!
OK let’s jump right into the Gospel today — another action packed chapter!
Today is the first day in a new section:
Ministry in Judea and Jerusalem
I see three valuable riches in this chapter:
- The Nuptial Relationship
- Which Rich Man are YOU?
- All Things are Possible
- The Nuptial Relationship- OK so here we have it — Jesus talking about divorce again — he mentioned this first in Chapter 5 but don’t forget now we are in Jerusalem and it must be addressed again – this time a little more specifically!
We are going to see that Divorce is a lot more than two people who can’t live together — or fall out of love — it is the breaking of a convenant made before God where God joined two flesh together as ONE!
This is very hard – but very very important to pray and ask for supernatural understanding! I’m going to take a shot at explaining a theological truth that I don’t think is addressed too often but that I am sure you will see –
God is three persons – Father, Son, Spirit – but ONE God. He is relational by nature – He is one nature – DIVINE!
Our Redemption is accomplished in a nuptial relationship – where Jesus takes on flesh and has a human nature and a divine nature — He is fully human and fully divine — so that we could be ONE with Him in HOLY COMMUNION!
We are the bride and HE is the bridegroom! So HE is the head of the body and we are the body! Jesus is male in gender and His body the church is female in gender. It is a marriage!
God ordained that marriage between human beings would be an image of the nuptial union between God and man. And so he made a man and a woman together to form the sacred union and the two really do become ONE flesh spiritually in marriage!
Now this might seem odd for the guys out there… but just think that you are in the ONE body — it doesn’t make you a woman just because the church is female in gender …so don’t worry! When it comes to the ONE body – we are all united.
This is why there cannot be woman priests — because the priest acts in the person of Chirst “in persona Christi” in the Mass and we -the body in the congregation are His Church – His bride —
In the Mass the sacrifice of Calvary is made present – not another sacrifice but the same ONE is represented and it truly is Jesus the Bridegroom–
so — Jesus is a man therefore the minister must be a man! The congregation is His body – united as one as and so the responses come from the Bride! And the work that is being done is redemption. Liturgy is the greek word for “work of the people”.
During every Mass the mission and work of redemption continues. We join with Jesus to offer the only acceptable sacrifice to the Father – HIS ONLY SON! Jesus makes this sacrifice through the priest who is able due to the Sacrament of Holy Orders.
This is the HOLY Sacrifice of the MASS — not preaching, or teaching, or any other kind of Ministry — and Jesus calls us to work with Him – He designed it that way!
This is why the Blessed Mother is called the Spouse of the Holy Spirit because she gave her YES – and was there all through the passion on our behalf – standing where we now stand in faith.
This is also why marriage has to be between a man and a woman! Marriage under God as a Sacrament is a sign that makes Jesus Christ present on earth!!
The love between the man and the woman brings forth fruit —the child. This is an image of the Love of the Father and the Son which brings forth the Holy Spirit.
So again the two become one flesh -
-So what God has joined together no human being must separate this.
I think this is really key here — God has joined the marriage together — so therefore how can we think that we can just go off and break it up on our own without God.
So why did Moses command a bill of divorce? Jesus says,
“Because of the hardness of your hearts”
hmmmmmmmm
Ok I am divorced — and I can say that statistics are showing at least 40% of marriages ending in divorce.
So what has happened over time that this number has gone up? It used to be you were an outcast if you got divorced — it is now acceptable and we see a lot more divorce —
bottom line is — Jesus even said — “Not all can accept this word but only to those who it is granted” Again special grace is needed to see this truth!
The last paragraph goes on to say that God has a will and plan for everyone and for many marriage is not part of the plan —
For some… they were not born for marriage…long story but keep in mind that we are all created perfectly as a little child but then the effects of original sin kick in and someone might be attracted to the same sex – etc…
I’ve done a lot of study in this area – as it is close to home for me!!! Bottom line is God creates nothing but goodness!! What happens after that is another story! The effects of original sin!
And then we see religious life there when Jesus says that some renounce marriage for the sake of the Kingdom of heaven! That means that some people have received the grace to wait until the real marriage in heaven and choose to enter into that marriage with Jesus now! Religious life — Sisters and Brothers.
2. Which Rich Man are YOU? Jesus ends the last section with the hard saying … and now enters into a light moment with the children –and it is all about trust — and here we see Jesus saying,
“Let the children come to me”
So why do we see this right in the middle of the saying of divorce and then the story of the rich man — again the call to be like children – to accept his teaching!
Now we come to my other FAVORITE event in the bible!!! We could do a whole week on this!
“The Rich Young Man”
I love this story because we have this rich young man come to Jesus with material wealth… and yet the man knew that He was missing something! He should have it all but he doesn’t!
The man asks Jesus, “what good must I do to gain eternal life?”
I love the way Jesus says… Good? there is only one who is GOOD and that is GOD! So you see there is no such thing as being a good person — it is a Godly person who is Good! Because the very word good — means GOD!!!
Then Jesus answers — to BE good — follow the commandments! God’s laws are for OUR GOOD!
Then if you really want to go full force … and BE perfect– sell everything you have and give it to the poor and
YOU WILL HAVE TREASURE IN HEAVEN…
..then come and follow me!
3. All things are POSSIBLE! – Jesus then turned to His disciples and said “Amen I say to you, it will be hard for one who is rich to enter the kingdom of heaven.
Again I say to you it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for one who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.”
In Jerusalem there is a very narrow way that someone can enter into the east gate of the temple —It is called the “eye of the needle”
His point of not passing through the eye of the needle – is a good one as when you see it in Jerusalem, it is impossible for anything too wide to fit into this opening –
So the disciples were feeling confused again — how could anyone leave their great inheritance? They asked , “then who can be saved?” and “What about US?”
Jesus answers ” For Human beings this is impossible but for God all things are possible”
OF course this is GRACE in a nutshell!
Better to be the SPIRITUAL RICH man instead of the PHYSICALLY RICH man –
Peter immediately wants to know how this will all pan out for the disciples who have given up everything?
Jesus says to them…
“Amen, I say to you that you who have followed me, in the new age, when the son of Man is seated on his throne of glory, will yourselves sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel…
and everyone who has given up houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or lands for the sake of my name will receive a hundred times more, and will inherit eternal life.”
Given up? what does that mean? I see it as given up — in prayer — ie
a brother in prayer… who isn’t changing HIS ways ===I give him up to God — situations, homes etc….
then Jesus finishes by saying…
But many who are first will be last, and the last will be first–
Ok so Jesus is speaking to us in the new age too! He is letting us know that we who are later can still be first — we can still be huge saints!!!
JESUS gave all that to the apostles who were first … but He has so much more for those who give up everything for HIM!
What do you think?




